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My name is Alex, and for the last decade, I’ve been a mental health advocate here in Austin.
This work isn’t just a career for me; it’s a mission born from one of the most painful nights of my life.
It was a Tuesday.
The air was thick with the smell of an oncoming Texas storm.
My phone rang, and it was a friend, his voice a frayed wire.
He was lost in a darkness I couldn’t comprehend, a storm of despair that had swallowed him whole.
I spent the next two hours in a frantic, desperate search, my screen glowing with a dozen different phone numbers, websites, and acronyms.
Each one promised help, but together they formed an impenetrable maze.
I didn’t know which number was the “right” one, which service was for this kind of crisis, and my paralysis grew with every passing second.
By the time the real storm broke outside, it was too late.
I had failed him.
That failure haunted me.
The system, so rich with resources, had been useless in the moment it was needed most.
This experience revealed a devastating truth: when you are in the throes of a mental health crisis, your ability to make complex decisions evaporates.1
The moment of your greatest need is the moment of your least capability.
Presenting a person in that state with a long list of options isn’t helpful; it’s an act of unintentional cruelty that can lead to fatal inaction.
My turning point—my epiphany—didn’t come from discovering some secret, new resource.
It came from a completely new way of seeing the ones we already have.
I was walking along the shore of Town Lake one evening, watching the last of the rowers head in, when it hit me.
A person in crisis is like a sailor caught in a sudden, violent squall, disoriented and lost at sea.
My job wasn’t to hand them a cluttered, confusing nautical chart.
My job was to teach them how to do one simple thing: find the nearest lighthouse.
This is the “Lighthouse and Harbor” model, and it changed everything about how I approach this work.
- The Lighthouse is the crisis hotline—a single, bright, universal beacon of hope you can spot from anywhere in the darkness.
- The Harbor Pilot is the trained crisis counselor who answers your call. They don’t take over your ship; they come aboard with expert knowledge of the local waters, listen to you, and calmly guide you through the treacherous waves.
- The Safe Harbor is Austin’s entire ecosystem of mental health support—the network of services where you can dock, make repairs, refuel, and prepare for the journey ahead.
This guide is not another confusing list of numbers.
It is a navigational chart, built from hard-won experience and designed to honor the reality of being in a crisis.
It will walk you, step-by-step, from the storm to the shore.
I promise to cut through the confusion and show you the clear, simple path to safety here in Austin.
Your Lighthouses in the Dark: Immediate Help in Austin
When you’re lost in the storm, your only job is to find a light.
Any light.
You don’t need to find the “perfect” one.
The system is designed so that any of these primary beacons can guide you toward safety.
Below are the brightest lighthouses in Austin’s sky.
Pick one and make the call or send the text.
That’s it.
That’s the first step.
Primary Lighthouses (The Brightest Beams)
These are your two most powerful, all-purpose beacons.
They are available 24/7, are free, and confidential.
- Call or Text 988
This is the universal, nationwide lighthouse. It is the easiest number to remember in a crisis.3 When you call or text 988 from the Austin area, you are not being routed to some distant, generic call center. The system is specifically designed to connect you to a local Texas-based crisis center, often staffed by the very same network of professionals who answer the local lines.3 Think of 988 as the simplest, most direct way to tap into our powerful local support system. - Call 512-472-HELP (4357)
This is Austin’s own powerful, local lighthouse, the 24/7 Crisis Helpline operated by Integral Care.7 As our community’s designated Local Mental Health Authority (LMHA), Integral Care is the bedrock of crisis services in Travis County.9 Calling this number connects you directly to the heart of Austin’s crisis response system.
You do not have to choose between these two.
They are both excellent entry points into the same supportive harbor.
If one number feels easier to dial, use that one.
Specialized Beacons (For Specific Voyages)
Sometimes, you need a light that understands the specific waters you’re navigating.
These resources are staffed by people with specialized training for particular communities.
- For Youth & LGBTQ+ Youth:
- The Trevor Project: A national leader in supporting LGBTQ+ young people. Call 1-866-488-7386, text START to 678-678, or chat online.7
- Texas Youth Helpline: Provides support for youth and families across Texas. Call 1-800-989-6884 or text 512-872-5777.7
- Out Youth: An Austin-based organization offering support to LGBTQ+ youth.7
- For UT Austin Students:
- CMHC 24/7 Crisis Line: The Counseling and Mental Health Center at UT Austin provides a dedicated 24/7 crisis line for its students at 512-471-2255.12
- For Veterans, Service Members, and their Families:
- Veterans Crisis Line: Dial 988 and then press 1 to be immediately connected to counselors who have specific training and understanding of military culture and challenges.3
Remember, the goal is connection, not perfection.
The people on the other end of these lines are all trained to help, and they are all part of an interconnected system.
Just reach out to one.
Trusting the Harbor Pilot: Demystifying the First Call
The moment between knowing you need help and actually making the call can feel like a chasm.
Fear, shame, and uncertainty rush in.
“What will I say?” “Will they judge me?” “Will they send the police?” These fears are real, but they are born from the unknown.
Let’s pull back the curtain.
Think of the person who answers as your Harbor Pilot.
A pilot doesn’t take over your ship or judge how you got into the storm.
They come aboard with one purpose: to use their expert knowledge of the local waters to guide you safely to dock.
They are calm, they are skilled, and they are on your side.
What Really Happens: A Step-by-Step Voyage
Based on the protocols of the 988 Lifeline and countless personal stories, here is what you can expect when you reach out.15
- Dialing and Connecting: When you call 988, you’ll first hear a brief, calm automated message. It will offer options, such as pressing 1 for the Veterans Crisis Line or 2 for Spanish-language support.14 If you do nothing, you’ll be routed to the next available local counselor. You’ll hear some gentle music for a short period—typically less than a minute—while you’re connected.14
- A Human Voice: A trained counselor will answer, introduce themselves, and then gently ask about your immediate safety.15 They might say something like, “My name is Sarah. Are you safe right now?” This isn’t an interrogation. It’s the pilot checking for immediate dangers before starting to navigate. It allows them to understand the urgency of your situation.
- The Conversation is Yours: This is the most important part. You guide the conversation. You can share as much or as little as you feel comfortable with.16 You don’t need a perfectly prepared speech. You can start with “I’m not okay,” or “I’m having a really hard time.” That is more than enough. The counselor’s job is to listen—to truly listen—and to help you feel less overwhelmed. As writer Joel L. Daniels, who credits a hotline with saving his life, described it, the counselor was “so warm. She was so loving. She was so comforting… Listening without judgment, without bias, without prejudice”.2 That is the experience you deserve, and the one they are trained to provide.
Addressing Your Biggest Fears
Let’s confront the fears that keep people from making the call head-on.
- “Will they send the police or an ambulance?”
This is the single greatest fear for many, and it’s largely based on misinformation. The primary goal of a crisis line is de-escalation and empowerment, not involuntary intervention. The data shows that fewer than 2% of calls to the Lifeline involve emergency services, and this is always a last resort.17 Intervention only happens when someone is at immediate risk of harm and is unable or unwilling to collaborate on a plan to stay safe.18 The entire process is designed to work
with you to restore your own sense of safety and control, not to take it away. - “What if I don’t know what to say?”
You don’t have to. The counselors are trained to guide the conversation with gentle, open-ended questions.19 They will meet you where you are. The pressure is not on you to perform; the space is there for you to simply be. - “Is it really confidential?”
Yes. Every call is confidential, and you can remain completely anonymous if you wish.16 You don’t have to give your name or any identifying information. This is a safe space.
The Harbor Pilot’s Toolkit: The Art of Active Listening
How can a stranger on the phone actually help? It’s not magic; it’s a set of powerful, evidence-based skills.
Understanding them can help you trust the process.
- They Give You Their Full Attention: Counselors are trained to be fully present, focusing only on your words, your tone, and your feelings. They set aside all other distractions to truly hear you.20
- They Withhold Judgment: Their role is to understand your world from your perspective. They are there to validate your feelings, not to evaluate them or tell you how you should feel.22
- They Reflect and Validate: This is perhaps their most powerful tool. They will often paraphrase what you’ve said, especially the emotions. Hearing your own pain reflected back to you in a calm, accepting voice—”It sounds like you’re feeling incredibly alone and that it’s all become too much to carry”—can be profoundly healing. It tells you that you are heard and that you make sense.20
- They Allow for Silence: A trained counselor is comfortable with pauses. They know that silence gives you the space to process your thoughts and emotions without feeling rushed.22
The hotline call is a demonstration of these skills in action.
It is a process designed to collaboratively build a bridge from crisis back to safety, with you in control of the journey.
Welcome to the Harbor: Austin’s Full Ecosystem of Crisis Support
The harbor pilot has guided you through the storm-tossed entrance.
You’ve made it through the initial crisis.
Now, you are in the safe harbor.
A good harbor isn’t just a patch of calm water; it’s a bustling port with different docks, repair crews, and supply stations to help you get your vessel seaworthy again.
This is Austin’s mental health ecosystem.
The Main Dock: Integral Care, Austin’s Bedrock of Support
Integral Care is the central hub of our public mental health system, the main dock where many journeys of recovery begin.9
As the Local Mental Health Authority for Travis County, they provide a continuum of care that goes far beyond the initial phone call.
Understanding these services is the key to navigating the harbor effectively.
| Service | What It Is | Who It’s For | How to Access |
| 24/7 Crisis Helpline | A 24/7 phone line for immediate emotional support, crisis intervention, and referral to other services.7 | Anyone in Travis County experiencing any kind of mental health distress. This is the first and best place to start. | Call 512-472-HELP (4357) |
| Mobile Crisis Outreach Team (MCOT) | A team of mental health professionals who can come to you in the community to provide a face-to-face assessment, de-escalation, and support.8 | Someone in a crisis who needs in-person help but is not in immediate physical danger and may have difficulty getting to a clinic. | Accessed via the 24/7 Crisis Helpline. |
| Psychiatric Emergency Services (PES) | A 24/7 walk-in clinic that provides urgent psychiatric assessment and care. It’s a specialized and more appropriate alternative to a hospital emergency room for a mental health crisis.8 | Someone needing immediate, in-person psychiatric care for themselves or a loved one. | Walk-in at 1165 Airport Blvd, 2nd floor, Austin 78702. Open 24/7. |
This continuum—from a phone call to mobile outreach to walk-in care—is a testament to a system that is actively working to meet people where they are.
Integral Care’s commitment to the “Zero Suicide” framework means they are constantly training staff and implementing evidence-based tools like Safety Planning and the Columbia-Suicide Severity Rating Scale (C-SSRS) to provide the best possible care.25
This isn’t a static bureaucracy; it’s a dedicated network of professionals striving to save lives.
The Shipyard: NAMI & AFSP for Community and Long-Term Repair
A harbor isn’t just for emergencies; it’s for community, for sharing stories with other sailors, and for long-term repairs.
In Austin, two organizations are pillars of this kind of support.
- NAMI Central Texas: NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness, is the nation’s largest grassroots mental health organization. Their Central Texas chapter is where you find your crew. They offer free, confidential peer-led support groups and educational classes for both individuals living with mental health conditions and their families.27 If you’ve ever felt alone in your struggle, a NAMI Connection or Family Support Group meeting is a powerful reminder that you are not. They are on a mission to break the silence and provide safe spaces for people to share their stories.29
- American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) Central Texas: If NAMI is the community, AFSP is the force working to make the seas safer for everyone. The AFSP Central Texas chapter focuses on funding research, providing educational programs, and advocating for public policies in suicide prevention.30 They organize events like the “Out of the Darkness” community walks and offer programs like “Talk Saves Lives” to teach everyone how to be part of the solution. Getting involved with AFSP is a way to turn personal pain into public purpose.
Specialized Moorings: A Safe Berth for Every Vessel
Our harbor has dedicated docks designed to provide specialized care for specific communities, ensuring everyone feels safe and understood.
- For Youth: In addition to the helplines mentioned earlier, Integral Care offers school-based prevention efforts and works with the Austin-Central Texas Suicide Prevention Coalition to support young people.25
- For College Students: The University of Texas at Austin’s Counseling and Mental Health Center (CMHC) is a comprehensive resource, offering everything from short-term counseling to psychiatry services, most of which are free for students. Their 24/7 crisis line (512-471-2255) is a vital lifeline for the student community.12
- For the LGBTQ+ Community: The 988 Lifeline has evolved to better serve the LGBTQ+ community. You can now press “3” when calling or text “PRIDE” to 988 to connect with a counselor specifically trained in LGBTQ+ affirming care.3 This, alongside The Trevor Project, provides crucial, culturally competent support.
- For Veterans: The Veterans Crisis Line (accessible by dialing 988 then pressing 1) is staffed by people who understand the unique challenges faced by service members and their families. It is a dedicated and trusted resource.3
Becoming a Lighthouse for Others: A Guide for Friends and Family
If you’re reading this because you’re worried about someone, you are already a beacon of hope for them.
You don’t have to be a professional to be a lighthouse.
You just need to be a steady, caring light that can help guide them toward the harbor.
The entire suicide prevention field is moving toward a public health model where community members like you are seen as vital first responders.25
This is not just friendly advice; it is a core strategy, and you have an essential role to play.
Recognizing the Storm Clouds
The first step is noticing the signs.
You’re not looking for a diagnosis, but for changes from their normal behavior.
According to resources from AFSP and Integral Care, these can include 26:
- Mood Changes: Feeling sad, hopeless, anxious, or enraged.
- Behavioral Changes: Withdrawing from friends and family, losing interest in activities they once loved, changes in sleep or appetite, increased use of drugs or alcohol.
- Verbal Cues: Talking about being a burden, feeling trapped, having no reason to live, or expressing unbearable pain. Giving away prized possessions is also a significant warning sign.
How to Start the Conversation (Lighting the Lamp)
This is often the hardest part, but it is the most critical.
- Be Direct and Ask the Question: Find a private, calm moment and ask directly. “I’ve been worried about you lately. Are you thinking about suicide?” Research and expert consensus are clear: asking this question does not plant the idea in someone’s head.31 More often, it provides immense relief—the relief of finally being able to talk about the secret they’ve been carrying.
- Listen Without Judgment: Your goal is not to solve their problems, but to hear their pain. Use the Harbor Pilot’s skills: listen more than you talk, don’t interrupt, and validate their feelings (“That sounds incredibly difficult,” “I’m so sorry you’re going through this”). Avoid debating whether suicide is right or wrong or offering glib reassurances.31
- Express Concern and Offer Hope: Let them know they are not a burden and that you are there for them. Simple, heartfelt statements are best: “I care about you,” “I’m here for you,” and “We will get through this together.”
Your Role as a First Mate
You are not the captain of their ship, but you can be a vital member of the crew.
- Connect Them to the Lighthouse: Offer to help them make the call. Say, “There are people trained to help with this. Can we call or text 988 together? I’ll sit with you.”
- Help Reduce Access to Means: If they have a specific plan, one of the most effective immediate actions is to create distance between them and their chosen method. This is called “means safety.” It could mean holding onto their medication for them or working with them to secure a firearm outside the home.25 The 988 counselors can guide you on how to have this conversation safely.
- Help Them Navigate the Harbor: Once they’re ready, help them connect with the resources in Section 4. Offer to drive them to the PES clinic or sit with them while they look up a NAMI support group.
Taking Care of Yourself (You Can’t Pour from an Empty Cup)
Supporting someone through a crisis is emotionally and physically draining.
You cannot be a steady light for them if your own lamp is out of fuel.32
It is essential to take care of yourself.
You can call the hotlines yourself for guidance on how to support your loved one.
And please, explore NAMI’s Family Support Groups, which are designed specifically for people in your position.27
You need and deserve support, too.
Conclusion: The Sun Rises Over the Harbor
The journey through a mental health storm is terrifying, but it is not endless.
The darkness does lift.
Recovery is not just possible; it is probable.
Over 90% of people who survive a suicide attempt go on to live out their lives.6
The system, for all its complexities, is built on this fundamental truth: hope is real, and help works.
Consider the story of Danny Jablonski, a 58-year-old man who found himself in total darkness, overcome with grief and trauma.
He used the 988 chat function almost every morning.
“They literally, like, were my best friends,” he said.
When he drove his car onto train tracks, the words of the 988 counselor echoed in his mind: “Danny, don’t do it.
Please don’t do it.
We need you.” He turned the key and backed up.
A month later, he had a new job and a new outlook.
“988 saved my life,” he said.
“It plain saved my life”.33
Or consider Addison Eggebeen, who called 988 during a moment of intense suicidal ideation.
The long conversation with the counselor helped her calm down and become aware of her surroundings.
“I would say it saved my life because I didn’t know how far I would take my suicidal thoughts,” she shared.
“I don’t know if I would be here if it wasn’t for 988”.34
These stories are not exceptions.
They are the purpose of the entire system.
Ending with narratives of hope and resilience is more than a stylistic choice; it is a core, evidence-based public health strategy recommended by the CDC and other leading organizations.35
These stories are proof that the sun does rise over the harbor.
If you are lost in the storm, please know you are not alone.
The lighthouses are always on.
The harbor is always open.
You just have to take the first step.
Make the call.
Let a pilot guide you in.
Austin Crisis Resources: Quick Reference
- Universal Crisis & Suicide Lifeline:
- Call or Text: 988
- Available 24/7, free, and confidential. Connects to local Texas crisis centers.
- Austin’s Local Crisis Helpline (Integral Care):
- Call: 512-472-HELP (4357)
- Available 24/7, operated by Austin’s Local Mental Health Authority.
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